Hey, need some more advice. I use VOIP at home, which gives me tremendous flexibility in programming my phone, all done via a web interface. One option is call filtering. I am considering programming my home phone so all calls from her cell to our home phone go directly to voice mail (and remove the filter when she returns). So if she wants to talk to the kids tonite, she will need to call my cell. The kids never answer my cell, so I can just ignore the call. When she returns, I can say that a phone was off the hook, and I didn't hear my cell ring at the amusement park. Oh well, too bad...

What do you all think? Is this a good idea? I just want to send her a message that I am not tolerating what she is doing. Also, personally, I DO NOT want to talk to her when she is on her "business trip" with OM. Your opinion, please?