Thanks Hubby.. I just read about your trip. Sounds like you did great and kept your expectations under wraps as well. Awesome!
Step forward? H and I got into an argument last night. He did his usual - got irritated with me; said whatever and walked away. I - instead of not saying anything and just distancing myself - stated my case. Later - he apologized and I was able to further explain my point. Honestly - this is a HUGE step for us as far as communicating. Last week H also apologized for getting mad about something else - i.e - not listening and understanding what I was really saying. hmmmm....
Has anyone else gotten to the point where you view what used to be thought of as "positives" as just false? It just seems like the same old "good things" happen at times and then H's back to calling ow in front of me, tm'ing all the time, etc. I just don't even view any kind of hugs or affection as meaning a darn thing. Maybe I've just spent the past few months analyzing every move and now I know that is meaningless.. I do find it interesting, however, that it is starting to bug him that he is missing out on some fun outings. Even though these have been limited at this point.. he just recently said it bothers him .. hmmm...
