she wants divorce but makes no move

[keepingittogethe]

Yes, sometimes I feel as if she doesn't want to be the bad guy or something. And yes, there are times when I feel as if she's just waiting for me to be enlightened about our situation and agree with her that divorce is the only option. But I will not help her if this is the choice she is making.

I am no longer the person she is divorcing, and this person will not give up on the relationship without a fight.

There are some slivers of positive things, though. Although she says she has not changed her mind, she will still occasionally call me to ask questions or email or text me. She is not looking be completely rid of me, but that just makes me even more confused.

I wish she'd see a therapist again. Hopefully one who is pro-marriage.