Handcuffs and growls

[Soxfan2008]

Probably won't be able to buy though. Bad credit. H and I had to do a banckruptcy due to 9-11 fall out. Then we split. In retrospect though, the bankruptcy is becoming a plus. We have no joint credit. Only a joint past. and when 2010 rolls along, that will be wiped out as well. When we split, we split clean. I have no debt- save my car payment, make good money and am never late on any bill. H has only 1 car payment as well, but declared income for the past 3 years and couldn't pay a bill on time if his life depended on it. My credit is better than his at this moment. I'm working on improving mine. Who know what he's doing.

I save nonetheless. Better to keep saving and have a larger amount when my credit is good enough to buy, than have nothing when I can buy and have to wait longer.

Had a not so lovely convo with H about our credit this evening as a matter of fact. He was surprised my FICO was so high. I almost said, "Ya, one more reason for us not to get back together- you'd drag my credit back down." but I didn't. I may later though. He was trying to explain something to me that he should have explained 4 years ago when this all started but neglected to. Yes, I felt the "too little too late" and it probably showed on my face. But dam it. We're in this sit because he never talked. I'm suffering right now because of his mistakes and lack of communication from 4 years ago. I really don't need to hear it all now. I've figured it out on my own already and I already know what I need to do. I don't need him telling me now.

ok that turned into a rant.

How do I tell him that He's satisfied with the status quo, he's still figuring things out, and I'm bored and ready to move on- without him if necessary. ???????????????