Ok, about asking W if she had check-up with doctor. The reason I suggested strongly that you not be the one to say anything is because some H sort of fall on that issue in the wrong .....how shall I say this?.....attitude or manner? ......Some H don't know really how to approach the W about it and if she is already in a bitchy mood...it doesn't always set to well. So, don't worry that you have mentioned it. Now, I'm glad you let her know you were thinking of her well being and I pray to God that she has taken care to get an appointment. It is most important that she does it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
