I agree with was2sad..........don't leave your home. That was one of the things that kept me from leaving out of my house. My H would not leave and I knew I could not afford to live on my own income. So, it may buy you some more time anyway. And, I agree that you have done nothing to merit you being the one to leave. Your kids need your stability and I think they feel like it would be your choice to leave and blame you and be hurt by that decision.
Sandi2
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!