I think you are handling it just right. You said that as soon as you pulled back, she took some steps toward you. You are seeing that pulling back draws her toward you. I know it is scary to think you might be pushing her away too much, but it doesn't sound like you are doing that in your last post. You have to find that balance between not being overly attached to her and not being overly cold to her. It can be tough, but it sounds like you might be there already.
