PonyGirl, I'm glad you had a good experience at Retrouvaille. But I don't think you had the intended reaction. Still, it's good to know that even when Retrouvaille fails to bring people closer together that it is a worthwhile life-changing experience. Perhaps this is why it is called "rediscovery", because you do rediscover your spouse. I guess it should come with a warning that you may not like the person you rediscover there!