How can you really love each other if she is not filling your sexual needs? How can you love her as your LOVER, when she is not your lover?
My mother isn't my lover, but that doesn't stop me from loving her. Other members of my family and close friends aren't my lovers, but that doesn't stop me from loving them.
Love involves a lot more aspects than just sex. If it didn't, believe me I would have left over a decade ago...Christianity or none!
I would rather be without sex for the rest of my life than be without my wife. And yes, I've definitely given that question a fair amount of pondering over the years. There's no longer a doubt in my mind about it.