Well I'm not sure what to do here. I did the first day pull back and she has called twice.
This weekend discussed about doing an every other weekend thing. Well I talked, she got pissed. I wanted to head out of town this weekend, and she asked what for. Told her for a camping trip. She lost it, that was part of our issues, too much time with friends. She told me that I need to make S a priority and that it wasn't far for me to take off and leave her to watch him. Didn't know being with him was that bad for her. So I stopped her and said you made two statements there and I want clarification. I said your upset about me camping between you and I, and also upset about not making S a priority, which is it. She said not making S a priority. How could she say the other, she left. I said so then last thursday when you went to a bacheloret party and left S with me, was that a correct priority. Ouch! Shouldn't have but couldn't resist, I was too pissed. Got a screw you. Hmmm, hit a bone there. Well I told her that I wanted to follow through with her advice and get out, so I was trying to do that but now she seemed upset. Didn't want to talk about it.
First day of really pulling back and now she is checking on my schedule.
First call: W calls and says that she was wrong about me getting out of town and said she will find a sitter during her shift and watch S this weekend. Didn't mention that plans are cancelled after friend messed his shoulder up in a dirt biking accident. Just said thanks, sounds good talk to you later. Hung up.
Second call: After work call from W, asking if she can come over and do some computer work and hang out. Told her I wouldn't be home tonight, then she said well if you don't mind I can do the computer work tomorrow at work and pick S later, told her "sounds good, see ya later."
Should I be this short on words? Should I keep her from the house and me this much? She is being very kind in the calls, I don't want to go backwards here.
