"....It is the 16th. So i still remember. I say happy anniversary and i know it sounds bad but i dont mean it bad. Ok. Talk 2 u later. Love ya" I don't know if I'm gonna respond.
Hell no J, don't respond to that nonsense.... If he had simply said, " I know its a tough year, but happy anniversary" then maybe, but the underlying game in the way he put this, f^ck that. Don't respond to that nonsense.
It sends a way better message to be still, tells him that you are hunky dorey today, with or without him.