Kim, Thanks for the encouragement and the support. I am positive that family has had something to say about it. Her family has been in contact with me quite a bit. Her mother calls me every other day or so to see if anything is getting better and if W has "come to her senses yet". She is now staying with her aunt, who has also been checking up with me for about a month now.
I also know that the stress of traveling for 2 weeks with the kids by herself is probably giving her a big dose of reality. Seeing as how I am used to being alone with them and she is not. They are both good kids, but like all, they can wear you out. Especially when its 2 on 1!
And Slow like a turtle isn't the word. Molasses in the winter time will look like a waterfall by comparison. I am glad to hear her say she wants to go to counseling but I will still hold to my mantra from early on after the bomb "If her lips are moving- She is lying" Not to say I won't listen, just saying that right now I will take everything she has to say with a BOX of salt. :)I want this to work but have quickly learned that I have to protect myself first.
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M 39, W 35 D7, S5 Friends 18+ Together 11+ Married 8 ILYBINILWY 4/7/07 - A BOMB 4/29/07 Seperated 5/16/07 - D Filed She Moved out 7/1 D Busted 6/15/08