Sol, why go dark? What would be the purpose? If she's contacting you and reaching out, why the "go dark" stuff on your part? She ain't gonna be perfect for a long time (who am I kidding, ever) but you don't have to accept every invitation, you can be mysterious and probably the fact that she thinks you're not trying to win her back is a good thing. Don't respond to everything that comes out of her mouth, set a plan and stick to it. Again, she's the one reaching out and worrying about your lack of response. I say that's good! Stick to what's working. Often people on the BB want to go dark to punish or get back at the spouse which is bad, bad, bad! I'm not saying that is you, but think through why you would want to use this tactic, what would it do for your sitch?
