Whatisis - thanks for the reminder. I completely agree and that's why I haven't really done anything yet. I want to at least have SOME consistency in my feelings first, if it's possible.

And trying to keep on building the positives, in the meantime, but without losing myself in it again.

The rollercoaster - nope, sure doesn't. I wish I'd listened (both to my gut and to people here) and had more of a discussion with H about what him moving back in meant to us both, ground rules/boundaries, etc. Ah well... no do-overs, just keep moving forward!


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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