http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=996244&page=4#Post996244

I think this links you to my threads. I don't post on my own often.

My H and I are still living in the same house, sleeping in the same bad. He made it clear he wanted a D and to "go be happy and have other R's up to and including falling in love".
We haven't talked about any of this since February. That was when he told our D12 that we were going to live together as a family and that nothing was going to happen (him leaving) without us first talking to them. I expected him to tell her that night that he wanted to D, didn't love Mom etc. Real surprise.

I don't know where I am in all of this except that it is my decision to GAL for myself and raise our D's. I have no interest in anyone else and it is my intention to become the best expression of me.

I feel for any and all dealing with these messes.