Yes, I am OK.
Looking - No! One thing I have learnt, getting a bandaid for our pain does not work. It is just like the MLCer.
Hurt - I hurt for the kids, not myself. Things like holidays, birthdays and christmas are no longer the same.
Confused - No! this is where reading as much as you can helps.

The nightmare will end, the length of the nightmare is down to you. I am not talking about the length of MLC. The pain and anguish lasts as long as you let it.

Detach!
Detach!
Detach!

Easier said than done, I know.

It has been said that we need about a month for every year of marriage, and I would say that is about right.



Sorry Simon...can't get the quoties to work!! But I wanted to say you still amaze me!! You summed it all up right here. But I have a question. When do the months start?


Change the Policy.
Allow PM's
Free all of us.

Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!

:-)