Ok I guess I should have elaborate a little more myself. My H is Extremely friendly, and will got up to anyone and talk to them, women included. I've learned to deal with it b/c frankly it gets annoying. So I have dealt with this behavior for a long time, it just gets old after awhile. I get the whole "everyone looks" thing, I just don't and I guess that's why I don't understand it.

Oh and crazy eddie.. well mister I don't have a thing about being degraded. and I don't feel that way on a drop of a hat. Only because of my past problems with H.. (internet porn, and him posting a naked pic of himself on there on an adult site) yes I am aloud to feel a little insecure despite what I have been through with him.

Thanks Karen, I wish I had more time to do something for myself, but with two small children its hard. Not an excuse, but they are two very demanding little boys (one is 4 the other is 20mos) hopefully once the older one starts school I can have some little time for myself.

If I can watch my favorite show.. Ghosthunters once a week is great.. but that's all I get for now.

Anyway my point is, when he is with me I would like it if he paid the attention to me instead of the girl walking down the street!


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.