Does my wife have MLC? HELP!!!

[Not w/o Hope]

Keep Breathing, reading your sitch was almost like mine except I have did not moved because of the job. I to have just started this fun bus trip to $#@* but I think that our R/M is worth the effort. In my stich we are seperated but sharing the house and our summer home. when our work schedules conflict I stay with a friend. Use the resorces in the MLC forum, I have read it several times and have to keep reminding myself to keep a PMA. I started doing the things I use to do, running, working out. Golf is next on the list.
There are a lot of caring people here willing to help and they have great advise.
two of my coworkers went through the same thing a few years ago, one was succufull the other not so lucky. Have faith take care of the kids they will need some there for them, and by all means do not defend yourself or vent to the W do it HERE, I learned the hard way and pushed her farther away.