I think two HUGE questions you need to ask yourself are:

1. Will you truly ever be able to trust this woman again?

2. Do you truly still love her or is it just now that you don't think you can have her, that bothers you?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10