My status, about 3 years on, from the time I see in your thread, for the past 2 years, we have had an in house seperation. She would hardly speak to me, act as if I had the plague.

As with you, I have looked after my wife for 2/3 of her life. She would treat strangers better than she would me. And still cant tell me my crime.

Our house sold 46 days ago, and she went her seperate way. I have had 1 eMail in that time asking for a status on a joint bank account closure. One left open for final utility bills etc.

My son went with her, and my daughter chose to be with me, kids to be shared out like the other material assets. Wife rings daughter about once a week.

In that 2 years, I did observe a gradual warming up, but so very slow.