Tired...it's human nature to "look" at others. You look too, even though you may not realize it...or perhaps you don't do it as obviously as he does, but even you will notice a good looking man, or a man who is built in a manner that you like....we all do it. It has NOTHING to do with how attractive he finds you (and I'm sure he does), it has to do with human nature; it's part of the human animal that we are, male/female alike.
Looking at another human being can be no different than appreciating a beautiful piece of artwork. It's nice, you enjoy looking at it...but do you really want to take it home? No Just because you look at something pretty doesn't mean you WANT that something pretty. It doesn't devalue you either.
Now, if he were ogling women, leering at them, giving them the serious once over while you were sitting there, or going up and talking to them...THAT would be different in my opinion because THAT's a respect issue...THAT would be disrespectful to do in front of you. However just looking at something/someone that looks nice...and appreciating that for what it is? There's nothing wrong with that.
If men/women didn't look at other people we'd be droids.
