thanks, Jack. I'm so sorry you've had to go thru what you have, but nice to know you have been able to create a life for yourself in spite of it. I appreciate the support. it really helps, having people here who really get it. odd at my age, but I don't know anyone divorced or even separated.
working out helps. I've been good about going to the gym, thank god for the onsite child care there. and I'm trying not to sit and stare at walls any more than I have to. still have those moments when I do, but need to remember even if its on my own, I need to get out of the house. there is so much to do in/around boston, there is really no excuse for it.
the abstinence thing, well, I can't imagine getting used to it. I don't want to get used to it. but the alternative isn't really want I want right now, either. so for now, its me, myself, and I. and I've only just turned (gasp) 40...my life on that front can't be over. so I'll work out, and try not to drown my sorrows in ice cream. lol.
thanks again.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
