CVA - Thread 2, Hold mode

[Not Much Left]

Thanks Sandi, again and NA

I will address some of this in pt no pot order as i am on my BB.

- blinders comment-that if my W does not take off her blinders as it concerns me, she will never see the changes. W said "i know". Friend is very much in favor of our marriage.
- we have 4 kids amd lilkely one (my daughter) would not want to go away with just me and the 3 boys as she is clinging pretty hard to mom right now in this terrible sitch. She knows what might happen and is very scared about us getting Divorced.
- on the schedule thing, yes i think my W likes it that i can come over and releive her with the kids. Yes she has it how she wants it right now.
-too late on the "woman's check up thing". I talked to her about it on advice from my DB coach, i did it very subtly one night from on on place of concern for her health (she had not had on on checkup in on on while)

-i will not be online other than this site, thanks for that though

NA
Thanks for your post too
I have been working on my temper. I was making real progress after our last sitch in this area then i was taken under by the pain im my arm and neck. Pt no pot excuses here, i just know that i can control this and "change" how i approach life by learning from how i did it poorly before. Working hard on it with accountability to others and IC.
You mention you have high expectations, boy have i heard that before! Pt no pot one can live up to this and should not have to, that is "our" problem.

Thanks everyone.