Sounds all so familiar. Maybe your H and W should hang out sometime! hehe. The part that makes me worry most is that she is very impulsive and prone to making snap decisions...most of her inner turmoil in our M seems to stem from the decisions she made before we met. I am praying that she has learned from those decisions and will not be so hasty in ending our M. There is an amazing wall of denial that she carries through into our own arguments and now to where we are now. It's so scary!