NDDT, I know how you feel about just wanting to know. My H wouldn't tell me anything even after he admitted to cheating. Said he wasn't discussing that sort of thing with me, that I had no right to know. All of our friends know about her but they won't say anything to me about it cuz they don't want to get involved. I know she isn't a girlfriend but I just want to find out to the extent that he is involved with her so when his truck was left alone at my house, I of course had to do some snooping but didn't really find anything. I guess that was a good thing. Like Nomo and everybody else tells me, what would that change except hurting me more. I know since we are separated that I should just stay out of that part of his life. Kelley
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
