NDDT - how ya' going? \:\) Reminds me of my bowling night. Hope you're not too hung.

Going back a little, you need to get past the OM thoughts. What if you found out she were seeing someone else? What would that mean for you? Would you throw it all away because she started dating or fooling around with some now? Why or why not?

In my sitch, my W has 100% denied that the EA was also a PA. I don't know for sure, but I guess I believe her. I have imagined a PA, I can assure you. If I find out it was a PA, I think I will be (better) prepared to handle it, because I have already experienced it in detail in my mind. And I don't think it would change my goals or plan. It would still hurt like hell, but once the emotions subsided, and the clear thinking returned, not much would change for me.

What, if anything, would change for you? Why do you care/obsess so much? Do you know? What are you scared of?

Nomo \:\)

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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