Sun, great to hear from you. Thank you for your encouragement.
Was2, I read through your post a few times before I could reply. I totally understand what you are saying, but sometimes the "mother/child" analogies rub me the wrong way. It's not your fault; it's just that I don't want to treat my H like a wayward child. I don't want to be seen as the patient, motherly figure of stability in his life. Frankly, that's not very sexy.
Nothing can be rushed in our relationship or anything new that possibly may come in the future, but I feel the passion and excitement would need to return. I don't want my H to view me in this fashion: Like a child with the mother, he will just be looking forward to being comforted again by a familiar voice. I love ya, Was2, and I hope you understand what I am saying here.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
