Next,

One more thing,

In an old post of yours in May you said:

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Anyways, she even asked me why I'm not standing up for myself more (half jokingly), as she is getting the best of both worlds. A crazy 'in love' infatuation, and the stability of being at home.


She's giving you the answer: stand up for yourself.

How do you stand up for yourself:

1. Refuse to leave your home until you are divorced.
2. Refuse to buy her any homes.
3. You've done the nice, attentive husband thing. Maybe it's time you try some things like going dark, being mysterious, taking up hobbies that increase your personal power.

--Theoden