WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing

[stillme]

WAW, I have not posted to you before, tho I have been following it for the most part & trying to glean some 'insider' info as well for my sitch. First, let me add my thanks for your openness and willingness to help out the Hurting here. Second, I am SO sorry you are here as well. It takes a huge amount of strength to do what you (we all) are doing - flying in the face of the negative or non-reactions to our changes/emotions/actions/inactions from our S. I applaud your efforts, and it makes me truly sad to hear the pain from your 'side'. Any one of us (LBS) would kill to be in your H's shoes right now; w/a S ready, willing & able to work together & re-create the M that we should have had from the beginning. I know you're discouraged, but please hang in there. You are learning so much, and that can never be a bad thing. Whatever way this turns out (for all of us), we will be Happier, Healthier & Better People for it.