MWHGC, man what can I say all this seems so exactly similar to my sitch. They're hanging on to excuses and I just don't understand why? Either we're too dumb to see what they're gaining from this or they're too dumb to realize they're wasting hours, days, weeks and months that will never return and in the process they're hurting people that'll rip their kidneys out for them in a heart beat. Life's too short for this crap, of course they'll wake up when its too late. Most people have found that they all of a sudden want to work it out when they find out you're with someone else. I'm not suggesting you should be with someone else but that's a typical woman. However, once they've had you again they go back to wanting out. They only chase you when you run, when you stop they lose interest.
Is your wife an Aries by any chance? or are you a Capricorn perhaps? I never believed in astrology and such but holy cow when I saw this site I got goose bumps reading this stuff:
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>