I'm so glad you update once in a while. I think of you often when I check in the bb. I have always thought our H's were some of the most confused in the bunch so it's good to know he is more calm these days.
My H and I went out to dinner Sat. night and actually talked the whole time instead of staring around uncomfortably. It was a rare experience. He's still cold but it was a nice change.
I know exactly how you feel about the house selling and about being friends with your H. I know if ours sells I will have many mixed feelings, but to be honest I think if H leaves again I will not be able to live here. There are just too many bad memories. I love my neighbors and will miss them but this house feels haunted by all the bad that has happened and its so very sad being here alone.
Take care and keep us posted once in a while. That two year mark is a very interesting time for so many.
Hugs, Sun
"Tell me what you plan to do with your one wild and precious life." Mary Oliver