I've refered to the discovery of a PA as "the ultimate cold shower".
Really took the edge of any desires I may have had for a while, and I am well within the "highly sexed personality" archetype.
However, as someone upthread mentioned, days turning into weeks turning into months has certainly gotten me more motivated to "get back on the horse". Unfortunately, the stable is empty, and with all the working out I have been doing, I'm kind of afraid of hurting myself (wink wink, nudge nudge).
So far I have resisted 3 real possibles and 1 sure thing. I still haven't wavered, but let's hope something changes before too much longer.
see, for me, it was the opposite. I started craving touch so much it hurts. I'm not sure I'd hurt myself, but whoa to the other person.
love your name, btw. its exactly how I feel.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"