BTW, her leaving was the most important point in my 37 years of life. I know I would not have had the strength, courage, or need to become the person I am now were it not for her leaving. And for that I am grateful. Truly grateful. I told her that last week and hope she believes me. I think she does.
Me 37; W 35; 2 dogs M 8 years; before that, dated 9 years Bomb #1: 10/13/2006 (day after my birthday) Bomb #2: 1/15/2007 I am finding strength I never thought I had