NDDT,

Wow! Ha we are twins. The anger is taking hold and I have to keep it at bay. I'm doing all I can, exercise, busy work, cleaning, lifting, riding, anything.

How long ago did you buy the place. My wife left 3 weeks after we bought. ????? Got a dog a few days before. Won't recap you have read it.

I think it is really helping me to get back to some music I used to listen to. Not really family friendly but it is dropping the stress level in the short term. I have to look internaly for the long term.

Well W flat out admitted that she is dating. Still swears up and down that nothing intimate is happening. But like everyone else has said, make your decision now and follow through. Take each new thing as it comes, take 48 hours. Think it through. Get some rest and try to keep your mind under control. Coming from the guy who has all but lost it.


Me: 31
W: 31
S: 2
Bomb 6-24-07
Seperated 6-24-07
W Filed October
Temp. Hearing 11-26-07
Completely Sober Jan. 2, 08.