She is definitely testing your resolve, IMO. I LOVE the idea of you finally more or less throwing your hands up and saying (not literally -- just to yourself), "Fine, have your hayday. I'm not gonna sit around and wait for you to figure it out and tug me this way and that until you do. I'm gonna GAL, and it certainly won't have anything to do with you," etc, etc. Obviously, you should stay upbeat, friendly, etc, but detach like a motha and go dark. No contact other than completely necessary (i.e. son), much less financial help, if any (this is a problem I have), quick pick ups and drops (liked that idea), etc. Show her that you will be just fine and happy without her, and since that seems to be the choice she is making, you're just showing her you're getting a head start. Let her think on THAT.
Sorry, I'm venting for you right along with you! She's definitely lost and needs to dig deep to find herself. Just enjoy your picnic while she wanders aimlessly in the castle!
GD
Disclaimer:
I might be completely wrong about everything forementioned in this post, and therefore I will not be held liable for any casualties resulting from said advice. I am not a professional DBer, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn last night.
