Gone Dancin's Dilemma, 3

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GD

You are being too nice

With the talk I would tame it down a touch for example;

I know I've made a lot of mistakes over the years, and I can never take them back.

I would change this to
I know We've made a lot of mistakes over the years, and We can never take them back.

Make this a joint issue not just yours , unless you realy are prepared to take her back unconditionaly.

Also with the scheduling , dont be in too much of a hurry to change your plans to accomodate her , surely she can find a sitter if needed. She has chosen to do what she is doing , let her take some responsibility.

Just my 2c.

Dave