I hope there is a chance of it ending. He's told me it was over many times, only for me to find out that they are still talking, if nothing else. the last straw for me was when I asked him for 2 weeks, we agreed on all the groundrules up front...including no contact with her. silly me for having thought it was over. he told me on 4th of july he had talked to her a few times, but that was it. nice that he told me (his phone records update the next day, so would have known, but nice not to have to look). but then his corporate card statement came the next day, I opened it, and whoa, lets just say no way is it over. nope, not even close.
anyway, enough about me. sorry, I get a little self-obsessed lately. I'm so glad you don't have an affair to deal with. honestly, if it weren't for the kids, I think it would have destroyed me. I have to stay strong for them. And I'm still in shock, still in disbelief. part of me still doesn't fully get it at times...like I'm watching someone else's life. (didn't I just say enough about me? hmmm...gotta work on that, lol)
good luck, Max. will be pulling for you. take care.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
