Thanks, HS! Yep, exactly... I didn't stroke his ego. I do see what you guys are saying about it maybe coming across to him as more resentful though. Just to assure you, I didn't have a bitchy tone when I said that but I know it's all in how a person perceives you. And, yep... that is his problem to deal with. Glad to hear my confidence level is looking good to you. Thanks for the feedback!
I had that meeting today, and my confidence has shot up another notch or so. I'm so glad I had the guts to ask the hard questions. Looks like I needed to know the information I learned. It doesn't make my decision easy, but I actually feel better oddly.
Hope you're all having a great Sunday!
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.