I feel this situation and in house seperation has helped me to grow as a person, it was probably even necessary for my growth. But i feel Divorce is bad for our family, and for us. So while i can't control the decision my wife is making, i don't need to be a partner in it. I will respect her decision and work through whatever direction she feels we need to go (even if it means divorce), but i won't compromise my values in doing so.
Yes, that's who you are. I'm proud of your changes.
Your W is finding that nobody, bur her, thinks she is making good decisions about OM. My W got the same lesson.
You can run, but you can't hide. Eventually it catches up to her.
