MikeinMidland2: I know you were addressing Paul, but since Paul & my situations are similar (actually my WAW is ready to file... and there is NO sex here), I feel compelled to thank you for your encouraging comments. I needed to hear those words.
Paul (and EVERYBODY else), keep up the good work. We are people of principle. We know what is right, and we know what is best for our families. Our deranged spouses need time to see the light. We must continue to present them a person who they would not want to leave, and would not want to hurt. Do not let the occasional "backslide" slow you down (I have had more than my share.. staying on track from now on!). Keep up PMA... work on the 180's and go out and GET A LIFE. It's what our WAS wants to see. They just don't know it...