Ok umm screw that. Do you want to get divorced? If not then its simple, DONT FILE. No reason to make something happen that you dont want. I think from what you are telling me that yeah maybe right now she THINKS she wants a divorce. But does not want to take the responsibilty for it....... If that talk does ever occur. Similiar to a talk I had with mine. I told her that I still believe in our marriage and the vows that I made. I still want to keep our family together. I will not be the one that files. Nor should you if this is something that you do not want to happen.

She is not sure of what she wants.......if she was you woulda been served by now.

(Always liked that term, served. Like the good officer is gonna bring the papers to you on a silver platter. "Excuse me my good man, will you require something to drink with your papers?") LOL getting goofy now.

I thinks Michelle did get it right when she said "Time is our friend" even when it dont seem like it.