I'd like us to start over, W, and to do so as equals. I know we can do it right if we give it a second chance."
I only have a second GD, so I wanted to give you a quick take on this.
I would leave out the part quoted above. Anything that sort of gives the idea that you not only want to put the D on hold, but also maybe get back together at the same time would not end in a good way IMO.
I think just what you say in essense, is to place the idea that a D is not necessary at this time..... not that you want a full blown reconciliation.
The DB coach has good imput re;the OM, & I think believes a shorter/less said "Last Stand Talk" is a better choice.
Definitely hear from others, including DB coach before implementing.