Morgan - first off I think I forgot to post last time, sorry that you're in this sitch.

As for the picture - do what's right for you, not worry about manipulating him. I did the picture thing too so I know what you mean - mine came down, went back up, came down again... once I stopped and thought about what worked for ME rather than what might mess with H's head, it was much better.

As for the note I'd toss it - he knows he can put up a picture at his house if he wants. The note's more of a "jab" at him even though it's subtle.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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