when to initiate sex after abstinence

[needlove]

I see the point and I think you are both giving good advice here. It's not like I was out partying or whatever. Fact is I hardly go out at all and if I don't I usually have the kids in tow. If anything I make sure he gets to go out (with his buddies) while I stay home.

I know I need to "prove" that I'm willing to change, it's the going about it that I can't figure out. I don't want to pressure him, but I want him to know that I'm trying to work on this.