I'm new here and not really sure what to say, only that I hope the month gets easier and better for you.
I just finished the first month of separation...originally asked H to move out for 2 weeks, but that got extended to indefinite. For me, there are good and bad parts to it. Hopefully you will find some good of it. And hopefully your MC sessions will be really helpful. that's something I wish was part of our separation. unfortunately, our MC ended months ago (no MC while ongoing affair. maybe someday).
and whoa, that has to be some sort winner of a metaphor in your night last night. spooky.
good luck!
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"