Mark, You sound like you've done some reading on DB and are implementing some ideas. Good for you. If you don't want a D, than I wouldn't participate any more than you absolutely have to, for your own self-interest, and the best interests of the children.
She does have a poor opinion of you at this time. It's not because you're not pursuing her. Pursuing her would make you look weak--like you can't live without her.
Six weeks of DBing is still very early in the process.
Let's hope for some positive signs. Things can change pretty quickly.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
