I am glad you had a great time yesterday. It sounds like it was a lot of fun!
It is nice that you could talk to and hang out w/ your BIL yesterday. I think you did a good job of not pushing too much for answers. It is very likely, though, that he really doesn't know much, like he said. I was kind of surprised to find out how vague my H was w/ his family about what is going on. And you did really well to stay away from the OM question. There wouldn't have been an answer he could give you that would satisfy you because, really, he would have no way of knowing for sure either. I know it is hard, but try to put thoughts of possible OM out of your mind. As far as I can tell, you have no evidence of it and obsessing about whether there is or isn't an OM is going to keep your PMA down and keep you off course of making your own life what you want it to be.
