Thank you for calling me. I was just sitting here reading this and wondering if I should mention Retrouvaille to this person. So you have made my mind up for me.
I highly recommend retrouvaille, see http://www.retrouvaille.org. The conduct weekend retreats throughout the country and internationally. The reason I was hesitating is because they will insist that you cut off communication with other partners. So if you are not willing to give up the boyfriend, then it won't work.
