That's interesting - I can see why you may say that.

I guess I was much further along with my Sitch when I came across DR bk and my H and I found it quite useful to read bits separately and then discuss them. It seemed to give us a way in to to discussing some things when perhaps we found it difficult to start the ball rolling.

Everyone's Sitch is so different and all of us are so different that I guess it depends on the personalities involved.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength