help with reconciling with ex-husband

[shiloh_rt]

Please see my post:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1133300&page=1#Post1133300


I have been attempting to cut my ties with my bf. He is a nice person, but... Anyway he came back from a business trip and we had a huge blowout last night. He packed some things and left. My bf knew that i was trying to repair things with my ex, so no one is in the dark..

Prior to this my ex and I were spending quite a bit of time together. I really thought we could work on things. He consented to therapy if my bf left.

Last night I was up until 3am arguing with both the bf and the ex. I was dead tired today. My ex kept wanting me to come over and all i wanted to do was nap. We talked a little tonight...but it soon turned into an argument. Then he came over unannounced and wanted to see evidence that my bf was gone. This made me mad and I said no....so he waited outside and kept calling and driving around the block. He said he knew I was lying that is why i wouldn't open the door. He says the only way for him to believe me is for him to see all i do....emails, the inside of my house, etc... I asked him to wait until things were cooled down...

I don't know...I am confused...